By Cathi Nelson
Do you ever find yourself stuck in the “blah’s,? For me, I usually feel this way in late fall when the darkness comes early, the leaves have fallen, and the sky is often steel gray. This is the time I question all my decisions and wonder why I am doing what I am doing. The grass can look a lot greener on the “other side of the fence”. Over the years, I have come to realize this is often a stage and there are ways I can recapture my energy and passion for what I do.
Here are 3 suggestions if you find yourself struggling with the tedious tasks of working from home.
I recently offered to photograph and create a memory book for a young teen receiving a wish from our local Make A Wish Foundation. It was a wonderful few hours and reminded me of why I started my business in the first place. You can do the same, make a list of your talents and find a place to give back. What was helpful for me is I only gave a few hours. I have often viewed volunteering as time intensive but I realized that even a few hours can make a difference.
Schedule a Personal Care Day:
In the busyness of our lives, especially as moms and wives our care is often last on the list. It doesn’t have to cost much, even scheduling a daily walk can help you slow down and attend to your own needs. (more…)
By Kelly Robbins
Would you like to make more money working from home? Have better quality relationships in your life? Feel confident that you are genuinely present and of service every time you interact with someone? Know that you make a difference in each person’s life that you come in contact with?
Creating these wonderful outcomes doesn’t come from external tasks and practicing your elevator pitch for hours before attending a networking event. Or having that perfect business card and the most efficient marketing system on the planet.
These outcomes emanate from conversations you have.
If you would like to improve your sales numbers, or the quality of your personal relationships, take a look at what types of conversations you are having. Just as important as what you are saying is how you are being and where you are coming from when interacting with people.
What are the energy levels of the conversations you engage in?
The energy level of each conversation is more important than anything you can say. People will spend days and weeks putting together and practicing their “elevator pitch” when what they should be looking at first is the intention behind their conversations. (more…)
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, Cultivating a Positive Mindset
, Diana Schneidman
, Positive Mindset
, Self Criticism
, Self Development
, Self Improvement
, Success Habits
, The Work at Home Woman
, Working from Home
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By Diana Schneidman
I recently saw an interesting LinkedIn discussion on this very topic. One side asserted that you can motivate yourself to achieve your best by loving yourself more deeply.
The other side claimed you need stern, relentless self-criticism to stay on top of your work, get more done, and surge ahead.
Pretty sad, in my opinion.
I believe it’s easier to accomplish your goals when you are your own best friend.
It may be possible to succeed when you beat yourself up. But this success is in spite of you, not because of you.
Certainly there are many advantages to working at home. Convenience, no time wasted in travel, access to your own refrigerator, and financial savings. Add flexibility in scheduling, peace and quiet, freedom to work on the patio or play the music of your choice, depending on your situation.
However, there is a possible downside: isolation and even loneliness.
If you have a tendency towards feeling blue, the worst thing in the world is to feed it with negative thoughts. (more…)
Dr. Barbara Seifert, CPC
Imagine a life where all your dreams come true; a life that is filled with happiness, love for what you do and who you are, and enriched relationships. Sounds illusive doesn’t it? What if I told you that this is not only doable but easier than it sounds? And what if you knew that millions of people are actually living this way – would that entice you to read further and learn how to have this kind of life?
If by this point a thought crossed your mind for what you were hoping to find, then you have actually uncovered the key: having no expectations. Think about it: you set a goal for yourself, maybe you list the various steps you think will take you there, and then you dive in fully expecting that those steps are going to make that goal a reality. But what if those steps don’t work and you lose your motivation along the way; what if there is another person or situation that blocks the path; or, what if you reach the goal but find it wasn’t what you thought it would be? That is what having expectations will do – keep you stuck at some level.
In order to better understand, let’s define exactly what an expectation is: “the belief that something will happen or is likely to happen; a feeling or belief about how good something will be” (Merriam-Webster). ‘A belief that is centered on the future, which may or may not be realistic; a less than advantageous result gives rise to the emotion of disappointment” (definition.net). As you can see, anytime you say you want something, be that from others or yourself, you are attaching an outcome already to it which comes in the form of ‘want’ or ‘hope’ in the thoughts and words you say. (more…)
By Britt Andreatta
Work-at-home women are the most savvy and entrepreneurial people I know — and I’m not just saying that because I’ve been one. They are people like Lisa Gates, who started SheNegoiates.com to teach women key negotiation skills and Sara Caputo of Radiant Organizing, who helps organizations and people achieve peak productivity. Who doesn’t need more of that, right?
Even me. I have been an author, coach and consultant, often working from home in between or in conjunction with “regular jobs.”
What I know about all of us is that we always hunger to improve ourselves, seeking to take our skills to the next level. Just reading this post is an example of that — you want to get to the top of your game or keep yourself there.
Here are three practices to help you do just that.
1. Stay Relevant.
There’s no question that technology has changed the marketplace. More and more successful businesses are launched in living rooms, and social media has made it possible for individuals to compete with industry giants.
But the downside is that technology is constantly changing. To be at the top of your game, you need to stay relevant and current, which can be a full-time job in and of itself. (more…)