By Jeanmarie Bills
An event whether happy, like the birth of a child or tragically sad is often the catalyst for professional women to leave Corporate America.
It was years ago that my daughter Serena died in a drowning accident yet the memories of that day are as vivid as if it happened yesterday.
Serena for years had been my silent secret child because the memory of her death was so painful that it seemed easier to try and bury the thoughts of her death deep inside some hidden untouchable part of me. I thought that if I didn’t talk about it, it would hurt less.
No matter how we cope with these tragedies in our lives the one thing that is true for us all, these become life-changing events.
My life has forever changed because Serena was a part of it.
Her life has been a huge lesson that changed how I live and the things I value the most in my life. Like many professional women, I thought the corporate world was my dream job. But for many women, these life-changing events are what brings us to a place in our lives where we come to realize the corporate world no longer matches our core values or meets our needs.
Time freedom and to be able to spend time with the people I love was a core value that didn’t match the job. The further up the corporate ladder I climbed, the less control over my time I had and the more I felt I was trapped trading time for money.
It became obvious the corporate job wasn’t working but making a change seemed scary as heck. I wish I could say I had some magic potion or way of finding the courage it took to make the change, but the truth is the frustration just got to the point that it outweighed the fear.
The day I turned in my resignation letter, I became a part of a huge movement. Now, for the first time in history more women than men, are starting their own business. The reality is corporate jobs are just not suited to a women’s lifestyle.
The transition from corporate job to entrepreneur has had its own challenges. One challenge I hadn’t anticipated was my own “identity crisis.”
From the time we are children we pick up other peoples values of what a “successful person” is and adapt them to be our own. As professional women our identity many times is tied to a job title or the success that the job signifies. When this identity is gone, it can be a real shock to our sense of self.
I needed to search within myself to find the core values that were true to me and then match them to my entrepreneurial journey and lifestyle. For me, it meant finding tools and strategies to maintain my freedom while building my business. I found that when our core values match our daily life habits, you are achieving a whole new level of happiness and success.
The day I turned in my resignation letter was a day combined with fear and excitement. It was, by far the best career decision I have ever made.
Once you get a taste of freedom, believe me, there’s no turning back!
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